Art of Intelligence Neglect

"Sitting in a boring party and thinking how better you could have utilized this time"-Situation strikes a chord????Many of us find ourselves in similar waters here and there.

We humans are social animals and with advent of busy weekdays at workplace ,are on lookout to socialize and do not miss a opportunity when we get one.With our humdrum life we don't even give a thought about ,"Is this how I want to spend my time?" and just go with what are friends and friends of friends are doing. Lets go back in time and recollect those instances when a day before an exam your friends took you out to hangout,and you went just because they asked you to.This is more common with the folks who are introvert or are conscious of loosing out on a friend's cool books and say yes in peer pressure.We step out spend time with them,and return home with guilt trips in mind.It is fine to say "No",if it gives solace .We need to learn this art of intelligence neglect and say a no ,when we require rather than just being a mum doll.That no might have some repercussions and may cut some faces red but you cannot make everybody happy ,while you are sad.That bold,intelligent No might change your life for good ,as saying that on a face takes courage and serious backing.Doing so,you'll realize what your real self wants to do as an alternate and start to become more confident.We have many theories for "Yeses",and a first for "No" might not do that of a harm,as its an idea worthy of a try.Whatsay!!!